
Ever feel like your to-do list is a giant mountain you just can’t climb? Instead of tackling it, you keep pushing things off—and that nagging guilt only gets worse. I’ve been there too. But then I tried something that completely changed my approach.
I’ve always seen myself as a problem solver. At work, that’s just part of the job: tackling big, time-sensitive challenges and finding solutions. But when it came to my personal tasks—the things I needed to do for myself—it was a whole different story. Things didn’t go as smoothly, and honestly, it really frustrated me. Why could I be so effective at work but struggle so much at home?
When I took a closer look, I noticed something: When I procrastinated, I felt guilt—or, more accurately, shame. And to avoid those unpleasant feelings, I just stuck my head in the sand. The problem didn’t go away. In fact, it got bigger. And then, as if that wasn’t enough, I sometimes had to explain why I hadn’t made any progress. That’s when I realized what was really holding me back—I was too emotionally involved.

At work, I had the luxury of looking at problems objectively. I wasn’t the cause of the problem—I was just the one solving it. And that’s the exact approach I decided to bring to my personal tasks. Instead of staying stuck as the “me” who caused the issue, I became the problem solver.
It might sound a little strange, but it works. Whenever I noticed I was slipping into guilt and procrastination, I’d pause for a moment. I’d leave behind the role of the person who created the problem and step into the role of the problem solver. From that point on, it wasn’t about what went wrong—it was all about how I was going to fix it. No drama, no guilt—just action.
And you know what? It felt good. Suddenly, I wasn’t the person failing anymore—I was the person tackling things head-on and figuring them out. That shift completely changed the game for me.
I even took it a step further and changed how I talked about my tasks. Instead of saying, “I didn’t get this done because…,” I’d say, “This isn’t finished yet because of the following reasons.” It might sound like a small thing, but it made a huge difference. I stopped seeing myself as the problem and started talking about the task objectively—like an outside expert. And that felt freeing.
I know this might sound a little unusual, but give it a try. The next time you catch yourself procrastinating, pause for a moment. Picture yourself as the expert called in to solve the issue. Then just get started. It doesn’t have to be perfect—the important thing is to take action.
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With over 20 years of experience as a business analyst in international consulting, I specialize in business processes and their optimization. Alongside my main job, I run my own company, advising startups on their path to success.

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